A conversation with some friends kept me thinking. Infidelity - who's to be blamed?
As a woman myself, I would love to put the blame on the guy. After all, he is the one who's having an affair (well, sorta). lol. But a guy friend stood up and mentioned that such temptations only natural and you can't blame it on the guy.
Guy Friend: imagine this one couple- One day, something happen to the guy and he really needs someone to talk to. But, the girl is prolly bz/ in one of her mood swings/they are in LDR and due to time differences and stuff, she is nowhere reachable. and at the same time, there's this girl who's right there before his very eyes, offering her shoulder to cry on. Then they fast become friends and before they know it, they fall in love. end of story.
Hmmm..
Then came a girl friend of mine who mentioned the fault at the 3rd person's side. Hence the term bitch, so she said.
And that got me thinking. even more. Is it the 3rd person's fault for the guy to fall in love with her? Or could it be the 1st girl's fault for not being able to be there for the guy whenever he needs her? or this is merely FATE? could be. pfftt.
Owh well, I guess the answer varies. I am a firm believer that love doesn't just fade away. Not unless you let it be.
To the guys out there: Offer your commitment only if you truly are ready to be committed. A broken glass can be easily fixed/ replaced. A broken heart is not.
To the girls: You don't want your guy to be cheating on you. So why would you want to be cheating with someone else's guy? or worse, take him away from his girl? if he can do that with you, why can't he do the same to you?
To the owners of the broken hearts: If a person doesn't love you enough, then he does not deserve your love. keep your heads up high. Better guys will come along. God only let you meet the worse so you can better appreciate the best. (^_^)V
Love is blind. That may be true. But you are not!
As I am writing this, there are ladies out there who's mending broken hearts. Whose hopes were shattered into million pieces. And naturally, some manage to bounce from the fall, many.. remain hurt. And I can only hope.. that in the future.. less and less bitches exist, fewer hearts are broken and more and more great love stories are created.
PS: This is only based on a conversation during lunch hour. What if the roles are reversed? A girl cheating on a guy? I'm not eliminating that possibility. teeheee....
Toodles~
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
Sunday, February 21, 2010
New Houseeeee~
Hey peeps~
I figure I have to start blogging again. Just so I can get all these stupid rambles out of my head and hopefully have a better night sleep. LOL.
Lately, people around me have been discussing what they want to do after graduation. Owh well, with commencement just months away, I guess it's pretty much appropriate for the seniors to start thinking. So.... comes the big question..What do I want to do after graduation??
Truly there is only two options to this question: Start working/Go to grad school. Most friends would say that I already know what I WANT. Well, good for me I supposed? but How did I figure this out so easily?? Lemme tell you something. It is only easy for me since that's the only option I have. what I NEED is not what I want and what I WANT is definitely not what others who depends on me NEEDS. Satisfying needs and wants is not the easiest thing to do and is especially hard when you have 8 other variables that needs to be solved in the same equation. And so the solution only occurs when I have to rewire my brain to think that what I need is exactly what I want. TADAAA~ problem solved!!!!!!!! *fireworks. woot woot*
Well, that being said.... Friends, put the frown upside down and enjoy this moment when YOU is the only factor that you need to consider. Do what's best for you. I know it's only easy for me to say it but trust me, none of your decisions will affect your other variables personally. And so it is only a matter of time to convince them to accept what you will have to decide. ;) I LOVE YOU~ good luck!
p/s: To all other seniors, good luck figuring out what you'll do after graduation. MUAHAHAHHA~*evil laugh*
I figure I have to start blogging again. Just so I can get all these stupid rambles out of my head and hopefully have a better night sleep. LOL.
Lately, people around me have been discussing what they want to do after graduation. Owh well, with commencement just months away, I guess it's pretty much appropriate for the seniors to start thinking. So.... comes the big question..What do I want to do after graduation??
Truly there is only two options to this question: Start working/Go to grad school. Most friends would say that I already know what I WANT. Well, good for me I supposed? but How did I figure this out so easily?? Lemme tell you something. It is only easy for me since that's the only option I have. what I NEED is not what I want and what I WANT is definitely not what others who depends on me NEEDS. Satisfying needs and wants is not the easiest thing to do and is especially hard when you have 8 other variables that needs to be solved in the same equation. And so the solution only occurs when I have to rewire my brain to think that what I need is exactly what I want. TADAAA~ problem solved!!!!!!!! *fireworks. woot woot*
Well, that being said.... Friends, put the frown upside down and enjoy this moment when YOU is the only factor that you need to consider. Do what's best for you. I know it's only easy for me to say it but trust me, none of your decisions will affect your other variables personally. And so it is only a matter of time to convince them to accept what you will have to decide. ;) I LOVE YOU~ good luck!
p/s: To all other seniors, good luck figuring out what you'll do after graduation. MUAHAHAHHA~*evil laugh*
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